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What does Discreet mean?

Discreet means valuing privacy and keeping encounters or one's sexuality low-key and confidential.

Also: dl, down low, low key

Discreet indicates someone who prioritizes privacy — perhaps not out publicly, or simply preferring to keep their personal life private. A related phrase is DL, meaning down low.

There are many valid reasons for wanting discretion, from family and work to culture and safety. Respecting a partner's privacy is a basic courtesy and often a matter of trust.

Discretion goes both ways: if someone asks you to keep things private, honoring that is part of being a considerate partner.

"Discreet, please keep it low-key."

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